We moved. We finally decided to stop being indecisive and bought a house here in upstate NY. Do we have doubts? Sure. Do we save the boxes we unpack for fear that we could be packing all of this stuff up in less than 6 months? You betcha. But what can we do other than live our lives? Constantly questioning ourselves is tiring and very annoying to our friends.
While celebrating our anniversary with our friends Dave and Karen, I let Dave know that I'd had it with this area. The stinking snow, the people, the lack of culture. As soon as we could we were getting the hell out of Hallstead. Dave said to me, "Just wait until mid-May and decide then when the weather breaks." Ick. No way, I am outta here buddy. You can convince yourself to stay here but not me, I know better. But wait, what's that? A sunny day? Oh, maybe this place isn't so bad.
Tons of houses started flying on the market, and not the dumps we were used to seeing. Some nice, fairly modern homes in good neighborhoods. Our agent sent us a listing that we actually both loved. We saw it and loved it. Made an offer right away and viola! We were on our way to homeownership again. It seemed so easy this time around. Everything fell into place, we were approved for a loan that required almost no paperwork, with a low rate and what did our broker just say? The approval was done early and we could move our closing date sooner? Clearly this woman hadn't read the memo from the karma police about how to deal with this family.
Things went smooth, we hired great local movers (Miller Movers) after getting astronomical quotes from national lines. The guys were friendly, helpful and never once took a break! Our same friends Dave and Karen came over to help us clean before the move (our baseboards, miniblinds and light switches sparkle thanks to those two).
The girls have their own rooms, we have a jacuzzi tub in our master bath and Eula once again gets to sleep inside. We've been in for just under a month and I feel like tonight, as I mowed our lawn (with some encouragement from my husband. Women's lib is for the birds!) and smelled bbq chicken, I was home. Where my thought's escaping. Home, where my music's playing.
It feels nice.